Every Saturday morning I get a noodge from God. "So, can I interest you in doing something Jewish-like today?" They ask. (My God is nonbinary.)
God has an idea for me. For years, I attended Shabbat morning services at a variety of synagogues. I liked the Torah discussions, but my membership, attendance, and loyalty dimmed to my current description: culturally, but not religiously Jewish.
I do have a Mezuzahaffixed to my doorpost. I don't say a prayer when entering and exiting, but I do tap my fingers to the case.
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Doris and I play a game prior to nap and bedtime. Before slipping under the covers, I stand at the mattress' side and stare at the empty pillows. My rescue pet usually sleeps atop two.
I am in dramatic mode, acting as if a loved one has disappeared. "Where is Doris?" I shriek.
"Has anyone seen my baby?" comes the second line of dialog.
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My bedtime routine is to plug my iPhone and iWatch into their chargers. Their cradles are adjacent. But ever since I left my elderly iPad in the seat pocket of an American Airlines jet, I relocated the phone to the bedroom where it would substitute until my iPad6 arrived.
After waiting a month, my device finally landed. So prior to sleep, I placed the iPhone back to its original spot.
As I turned to leave, I heard a whimpering, then a soft voice.bedtime routine is to plug my iPhone and iWatch into their chargers. Their cradles are adjacent. But ever since I left my elderly iPad in the seat pocket of an American Airlines jet, I relocated the phone to the bedroom where it would substitute until my iPad6 arrived.
After waiting a month, my device finally landed. So prior to sleep, I placed the iPhone back to its original spot.
As I turned to leave, I heard a whimpering, then a soft voice.
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I told my dog park friends that I'd be hiring a car to drive Doris and me from Chicago to Los Angeles for a weekend event, they protested.
"Three days in a car!" Bethany said as she put a hand on my arm, as alarmed as if I had announced my pet and i would be hitchhiking the route.
Another friend painted images of motels on the road: seedy travellers, moldy walls, and stained linens.
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Doris and I are early risers. The first walk of the day for my adopted 3-year -old Terrier/Jack Russell mix is 6 am. It is dark at the hour. There are security cameras on several buildings, a handful of other dog owners, morning exercisers, and autos.
I don't count on the cameras or other folk for protection. I have my own trio of angels.
According to the Torah, angels are messengers from God. But my specific angels -- my father, husband, and brother -- have in my imagination elected to swap that role and instead become my personal predawn bodyguards.
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